This makes hard to define just who the real Mr. Waterboy is. His words and his actions seem to come from two separate personalities. His inconsistency is the only constant about him, yet he thinks he is the one stable man in a world of Lucy Ricardos. Aquarius views emotion as quicksand that will sink anyone bestial enough to indulge in it. Passionate men are walking vats of quicksand seeking to lure Mr. Waterboy to his demise. Still the cool Aquarius wants the heat that such men bring into his life.
Somewhere in his head Aquarius has a Platonic ideal of what a good relationship is that bears no resemblance to actual human life. However, this ideal is more real to him than the raw desire that overcomes him when he finds love. So it will take more than simple attraction to hook him. His ideal relationship is largely mental bonding, so you need to let him see the measure of your mind. Aquarius is drawn most strongly to men who give him a fresh perspective. Conventional wisdom says that if two men are friends, they cannot become lovers. This does not apply to Aquarius.
He does not see much difference between being a friend or a lover, so one will not preclude the other.
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Because he feels that no individual relationship can possibly stack up against the fate of society and the world, Aquarius equates romantic love with outrageous egomania. Sentimentality and clinginess on your part will only confirm this view, sending him flying. Aquarius is not a boyfriend for the easily embarrassed or the touchy.
Breaking up Mr. Waterboy sincerely believes that any conflict can be resolved by discussing it. Yet when he has reached his breaking point, Aquarius leaves without a word. Aquarius stays faithful more because it is easy than because it is right.
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Falling in love is not something he does often, but when he does it rocks his foundations. If he falls for another while with you, even if there is no cheating, he will resent you until he gets over it. Still, Aquarius is rarely in hurry to end a relationship and is even less rushed to start a new one, so it possible to weather this rough patch.
There are two ways to decisively end the relationship. One is to simply absent yourself.
If you are not nearby, or at least in frequent phone contact, Aquarius will not pine away for you. The other way to break up is to increase your demands on him. He likes to imagine that after a time relationships take care of themselves. If the upkeep taxes him too much, then you will be seen as a liability.
Though his love never quite disappears, Aquarius will amputate any relationship that threatens to pull him under.
If Mr. Waterboy seems too calculating in matters of the heart, he is. More often than not he hurts himself most of all when leaving a lover. Overall, I think that aquarius and scorpio is a bit of an unlikely pair. BUT from the scorpio point of view, I can say with confidence that scorpio has a lot to gain from that relationship, especially the scorpios that are born near mid november.
We're closer to saggitarius, and can be a strange mix: we long for freedom and lightness of being but that heaviness of scorpio is still present and drains us at times. We wish that sometimes life was simpler. And aquarius, being the intellectually creature he is, can drag us from our emotional labyrinths and show us another way of reacting to life.
And that goofiness and quirkiness of aquarius is enough to make a scorpio forgive him for being detached at times. OK, you're the Scorp you are expecting consistency, integrity, straight shooting and all that serious stuff. Aquas are not flibbertygibbits, they are getting vibes from within that they're always acting on. The travel and distance keep in mind cause an inattentive quality in the Aqua. They alsmost forget your name when you're right in front of them.
Take her word for it if she is interested but by no means bring the usual expectations, especially Scorpion expectations. I would say "let it ride" for awhile.
You seem like a pretty real guy and this a very real conversation. You know it's going down. I have been dating an aqua girl long distance, she has a young son we are both divorcees.
Knew each other before hand there always seemed to be a vibe. Nothing was explored until recently. I see her every few weeks. The third date when we were finally alone she turns out the lights I put the music on we start light touching and all of a sudden she. Needs to go to bed. I happened to be staying at her house so I just went to bed and she did this thing where she kept her bedroom door open, how ever I did not venture.
I came back into town we ended up going out with some other people. At the end of the night we had some action, still no sex.
And that's where I am now ,getting ready to go back into town. She only likes to communicate by text and Facebook, until I'm in town. It came across my mind that she must be a serious player, but when I am with her that's hard to believe.
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So tell me am I being played or is patience the watch word. You have come to the point where understanding both triads is how people get along, and don't, together. Air really lacks empathy. They don't understand the inner workings of water. Which is why by "general" standards, these elements cannot get eachother. So much i understand why astrologers say what they say. But it IS more than just sun signs. And there has to be water with water houses in the chart of the Aquarius in my opinion to understand a water person.
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Anyway I thought I'd say that because astrology really helped me understand on a deeper level Any two people who love each other have a chance. I believe in consciousness of each mate having awareness of the other. Regardless of the sun sign. Yes, Scorpio and Aquarius are a difficult pair. But then Scorpio and Aquarius are difficult in general with anybody.
If you want my deeper analysis, go to the TRIAD article, get your sun, rising and moon signs and give me those two matchings, and I will do a better analysis. It's free. You will need the hour of birth, plus city and birthdate, obviously. I will look for "Lechiaa". I'm a scorpio girl And my boyfriend is an aquarius. Him and I have been dating for seven months now. A few months back he showed me a site where it said we were not meant for each other at all.
I kept telling him that it only ends like that when the people stop caring. And that there is a chance for me and him to be together. And now that I read this page about out signs it a sures me that we do have a chance.. That's what people don't get Scorpios are earnest. They don't play around. Even when you think they are playing around, they are not playing around.
Its all earnest all the time.